The Internet can bring together people from all around the world in no time. Now you can meet Russian girls online just in few clicks.
Now you can’t surprise anyone with it: we get acquainted through the Internet, we meet new people and even make friends and very often Internet- acquaintances develop in some close relations.
Usually, online dating with Russian women begins with correspondence: sometimes – from personal, sometimes – from business one. Actually, e-mail, which was developed specifically for business correspondence, is now widely used to communicate with relatives, friends and acquaintances.
Internet relationship with Russian girls is particularly attractive for those who for some reasons have difficulties in establishing interpersonal relationships in real life. Such communication is possible to plan, build; there is time to think about how and what to say. In such communication, person has opportunity to show how rich is his lexicon, his mind, to show his sense of humor without having to worry about how he looks.
Communication via e-mail box doesn’t have many advantages to the real one. It is less intense: people only have conversation when they have time and opportunity to get online.
Written messages can be interpreted in different ways, including improperly. And when we finally got what it means, time was lost already. Sometimes it does not strengthen online relationships, but rather enlarge the gap between people.
We cannot see or hear the partners through correspondence. We cannot be sure about how our partner in communication looks or how sincere he is. In normal conversation, non-verbal signals help us – E-mail makes it impossible to “read” body language.
People do not experience feelings of physical intimacy. There is such a thing in real relations as possibility of direct feedback from other person that contributes into the personal intimacy, and online communication doesn’t have it.
As a rule, there is a lack of spontaneity, that’s usual for real conversations, in e-mailing which is caused by time of message delivery and you can start miss it.
Can the “internet” relationship last long? It can, but, in my opinion, in one case: if the relationship does not remain only on correspondence. When we are interested in person, we start to learn more about them, look at them, and hear them. Then comes the next stage of relations: I am talking about photos exchange, talks on the phone, Skype, personal meetings.
No wonder that psychologists say: non-verbal communication, which e-mailing is devoid of, takes up to 90 percent in our life! Are remaining 10-15 percent of verbal communication enough for building long-term relationships? In my opinion – it’s not enough because if the communication by correspondence does not get beyond the e-mail address, it won’t last long.