Women usually handle through divorce extremely bad, of course, excluding cases when it happens by mutual agreement with recognition that there is no love anymore, and they made a mistake by saying “yes” once.
In other case, there is an emptiness inside and desire to fill it with something after a divorce. It doesn`t matter that single Russian lady how bad relationships were before the divorce. Husband was in your life and had a place in it, which is free now. There are only memories and habits left. It feels more like you have thrown away the old coffee table in the corridor, you stumbled on all the time.
On the first evening, when you came home, you would realize you put the keys on it, and now you have to think about new place. Marriage with Russian lady is a need to restore life habits, the violation of which caused discomfort. The same is with the husband. It seems you don`t need him, but you still miss him. And, perhaps not him, but usual lifestyle. At this stage it is important not to start looking for the same man, but “with pearl buttons.” You don`t need exactly the same, remember what it led to.
The most important mistake is the fear to trust the man. It is important to understand that if husband cheated on you or betrayed you, it does not mean that all men are the same. It is necessary to remember that there is no need to look for a decent and faithful man in the brothel. If you want to meet a real partner in life, you need to look for in a decent place. In that case, when you continue to look for a man, with similar features of your ex-husband, then, believe me, you can`t blame them for turning out to be bust. You made that choice by yourself.
Often after a divorce thought like, “I’m doomed to be alone” settles in head of woman. They can feel their uselessness, emptiness, loneliness in a hide crowd and you can be alone on a desert island and feel themselves the part of the world. Loneliness is a state of mind, which suffers from a lack of emotional connection with others.
Children and age
Some women begin to fully immerse themselves in their children. On the one hand, it’s not bad, but on the other hand, just imagines: one day children will grow up, and what women will feel, when the child leaves home. By the way, as adults, they want to run away from family home even more, just to get rid of the annoying supervision. If you are looking women from Russia for marriage, you have to understand that as long as the children are small and you are 30-35 years old, it is much easier to find a partner than when you are over 40. Because of that it is important to understand that children are part of life, but not all the life.
Women after divorce don’t feel good, even when ex-spouses do better apart. Experts recommend giving up any kind of relations with the opposite sex at all for a while, and only after a full understanding of what happened start the search for new relations.